From George, Sr. on Saturday evening,
I am sad to say that the constipation problem became severe today. She did not sleep on Friday night due to the discomfort and pain. On Saturday morning I rushed her to the Kaiser urgent care center in Kennsington. A friendly physician's assistant immediately took dramatic steps to partially resolve it. We were able to go home with partial relief, but it required quite a few more painful steps at home to clear up this problem. Janet was in discomfort and pain for the entire day until her system cleared out. The strong pain relief medications cause this problem, and although we had one other prescription to offset it, it was inadequate. So, another medication adjustment must be made. All of this and the illness itself have been a terrible shock to her system. Each day seems to bring either some anxious moments or some trial or tribulation. It is physically and mentally exhausting for both of us. She is strong, but all of this is taking a toll. I am doing what I can to keep her spirits up, but when I am tired, I have lapses too. I must guard against such moments of weakness. She needs us to be resolute to help her in her struggle.
The visit to Kennsington today was poignant. It was exactly 4 weeks ago at the same clinic that we first learned she was seriuosly ill. We had no idea at all. In that one moment, our lives changed forever.
On a more positive note, we thank the HR dancers for sending a nice card with personalized messages!
We are hopeful that Janet will finally get some rest on Sunday.
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I she gets the rest too, George.
Janet is going through quite an ordeal.
Be Strong!
Athanasia
George, I hope Janet can get some sleep today - it will be the best thing for her. Please let us know when she is up to seeing visitors. Many people are concerned for her and would like to see her, even if for a short time. Let her know that you and she are not alone. Thanks for keeping us posted. Claudia
Years ago I spent many anxious days and weeks and months helping a suffering partner manage these kinds of problems after major heart-surgery.
You probably already know this but just in case: organic yogurt with a mix of fresh fruit, cut up in small pieces is very nutritious and delicious and does not clog the system. (Trader Joe sells frozen mixed fruit with raspberries and blueberries etc. that is a quick defrost away in a pinch.)Papaya contains digestive enzymes. Poach or bake fish that have white flesh such as flounder and tilapia . Do not eat meat and cheese. Enjoy ripe olives and olive oil with small amounts of whole-grain bread; avoid white bread.
Hope this helps.
love S~
Hi Janet,
I spoke with George Friday and heard the terrible news. I've missed you all these years. You look great in the photos - must be all that belly dancing!!! I'm praying for you - I know miracles can happen (ask George about the story I told him). George, find a Caregiver's Support group. The one I went to at INOVA Fairfax when my (ex-)husband was diagnosed with a rare form of stomach cancer was the only thing that kept me sane.
Happy (late) Birthday Janet! Hang tough - I'm praying for you. Lots and lots of hugs to make up for all the ones we've missed over the years. Lise Schioler
Adding on to what Stream said...flax seeds is the answer for many people. You can put them whole or crushed on your yogurt or warm cereal. They sell flax seeds at Trader Joe and Whole Foods.
George, if you need one of us to run by the store to pick up something let us know. Many of us live close by. I know you are very busy and must feel totally overwhelmed.
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